And if you’re a bit timid about it, take comfort in the fact that you can start out with something more mild. Tell him how hot he looks, or how hot and bothered he makes you feel. It is often referred to as “the language of passion,” but that’s only because it’s a type of verbal foreplay that’s used to create sexual tension and desire and to arouse. When you’re thinking of dirty questions to ask your man, you don’t have to ask specifically about his turn-ons. Asking about his turn-offs will be just as beneficial to you.
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Porn is an obvious place to hunt for inspiration for examples of how to talk dirty, though Dr. Jansen suggests looking in the ethical porn or feminist porn category to ensure that it’s mutually respectful. Some of the best inspiration for dirty talk during sex can also be pulled from erotic fiction. Plus, as both Manta and Dr. Jansen mentioned, you can always find your way into sex forums and dating apps.
If you’re in person
That’s a great dirty question to ask your boyfriend to find out about his sexual past and interests. Sexuality is a spectrum; being attracted to someone of the same sex once doesn’t mean you’re gay. Find out comfortable your man is with his sexuality. Let’s face it, a lot of guys like superheroes, and a lot of guys really like certain female superheroes. Find out which one he’d want to have sex with and dress up as her.
Dirty Talking Tip 8: Be Mindful of What You Say
Dirty talk during the day creates an electric atmosphere, fostering anticipation for an intimate night ahead. Playful exchanges and seductive promises turn every moment into a thrilling countdown to a passionate rendezvous, intensifying the connection and excitement between partners. Include some of these sexy sayings when you’re pleasuring your partner orally. It will build up not only his excitement but yours as well.
- “[The affirmation] could be a compliment about some part of your sexuality, whether it’s a part of your body, your sexual energy, or how you are as a lover,” she explains.
- With a little practice, you can soon be amping up the intimacy and passion in the bedroom by talking dirty with your partner.
- If you want to brush up on these rules and guidelines, then click here to go back to Chapter 1.
- Our content is provided by both relationship researchers and experts of various fields, including relationship counsellors, sex therapists and dating experts.
- Learning how to talk dirty to your man is quiet simple and propitious.
You have to give into this, much like you give into the idea of another person seeing you naked. It may seem strange, but try saying dirty things when you’re totally alone as practice. On the drive to work just say, “I want to fuck you so bad” at a normal volume until it doesn’t make you cringe. We’re all a bit sexually repressed in this country, and it takes some effort to undo that.
For example, maybe in your opinion “soft” is a compliment, but your partner hears it as a criticism of their weight. Or maybe you enjoy being called a “slut” during sex, but the request to call you such pulls your partner out of the moment. And by speaking our sexual thoughts and fantasies aloud, we can engage the brain more deeply in the sexual act, making it that much more pleasurable. The bedroom should always be a judgment-free zone, but that doesn’t make anyone invincible to embarrassment.
When you’re out in public, you won’t be having sex, but it’s still a very good time to talk dirty to your man as you can build massive amounts of sexual tension with him…perfect for when you get home! You will most likely need to whisper these dirty ideas and lines in your man’s ears. But if you like you can also type them on your phone and then show them to him. When you talk dirty to your man, it can also involve some sexy role-playing if you’re both up for it.
So the things that you will be saying to your man will be quite different in each case. Not only can these racy narratives upgrade your sex life, but they can also strengthen your relationship. Dr. Jess O’Reilly, resident sexologist for Astroglide, adds that dirty talk is also a great way to build anticipation and cultivate consent—both before and during intimacy. Lastly, what talking dirty to your guy does is build sexual tension and help him with sexual arousal.